The Faces of Tradition

A Patek Philippe is a watch that connects generations. Not only has it been the pride of the Stern family for almost a century, the brand also upholds values – both in watchmaking and in life – that can and should be handed down for years to come. We discover what passing values down to the next generation means to these four families.

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A Patek Philippe is a watch that connects generations. Not only has it been the pride of the Stern family for almost a century, the brand also upholds values – both in watchmaking and in life – that can and should be handed down for years to come. We discover what passing values down to the next generation means to these four families.

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NICHOLAS GOH AND ISAAC GOH

Few experience the passage of time as mercilessly as a parent. In what feels like a mere moment, children go from being in a cradle to being able to rock one. That’s why Nicholas Goh, founder and CEO of content consultancy firm Verztec, is acutely aware of time’s immeasurable value. “Whenever I’m feeling down at work, I remind myself that I’m doing all this for my family. The times we spend cuddling in the living room watching a movie, and sharing our dreams and talking about how to achieve them, keep me going,” he says. Having grown his company from a team of three to 60 in Singapore and 350 worldwide in nine countries was no easy task, but it’s one that has given him plenty of advice to pass on to his kids. “I want them to learn to be passionate in what they do, to have commitment and focus, and to be compassionate to those around us. As we are blessed, so too must we remember to bless others.”

(Nicholas Goh) Suit and turtleneck, from Boss. Watch: Patek Philippe 5140P-013.

(Isaac Goh) Pullover, from Hackett.

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LOCK CHING YUEN AND CAITLYN CHAN

Motherhood is an overwhelming task, but for Lock Ching Yuen, wife of aesthetics doctor Calvin Chan, it has given her a fresh perspective on life. “I’ve learnt to look at the world and see its wonder and beauty through the eyes of my daughter, Caitlyn,” she says. “I hope she has, in turn, learnt from me the all-encompassing love I have for her, and that it is constant, deep and uplifting through the praise, scoldings and little day-to-day moments we have together.” If she had to summarise the values she wishes to impart, it would be to “be brave, be grateful and be kind”. As older generations have walked the highs and lows of a comparatively longer life, there is much to teach the young ones, but Lock would never belittle the lessons children can offer in return. “They can bring back a joie de vivre to older minds that have been jaded by the same valuable experiences meant to guide the young.”

(Lock Ching Yuen) Alberta Ferretti dress, from Tyan. Watch: Patek Philippe 7122/200R-001.

(Caitlyn Chan) Dress, from CH Carolina Herrera.

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CHUA CHEE KHENG AND MARVIN CHUA

Watching children grow up to be stand-up citizens with the same values you carefully nurtured in them must be one of the most satisfying aspects of being a parent. It certainly is the case for Chua Chee Kheng, executive director of trading company Lepon. “We are gratified to observe that the core values we hold dear – namely respect for others and humility – have been ingrained in both our married children,” he says. He’s well aware that different generations can have contrasting views on issues, but it’s nothing some good old communication can’t fix. “We learn to understand the challenges the other faces,” he adds. “And family history and cultural heritage can be passed on more effectively with a strengthened bond.”

(Chua Chee Kheng) Suit, from Hackett. Watch: Patek Philippe 5230R-001

(Marvin Chua) Sweater, from Hackett. Watch: Patek Philippe 6000G-012.

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FANTY SOENARDY AND LOUISA ONG

Fanty Soenardy and her property developer husband, Douglas Ong, may lead a cushy life compared to most, but the mother of two and self-proclaimed fashion enthusiast believes her children must create value for society. “Aside from loving their family and having gratitude, I encourage them to do volunteer work, or to simply guide their school juniors academically or in their extra-curricular activities,” she says. She says her children are still young and lack life experience, but they have taught her the importance of mutual respect. “Sometimes, they offer interesting reasoning and may even be right on some matters. By being respectful of their thoughts, I gain respect from them as well.” Ultimately, Soenardy understands that the exchange of thoughts and ideals is what strengthens the family unit. “It is through our family chats that we share our joy, respectfully tell one another the things we are unhappy with, and basically know what is happening in everyone’s lives.”

(Fanty Soenardy) Temperley jacket and Marchesa Notte jumpsuit, from Outnet.com. Watch: Patek Philippe 7010R-012.

(Louisa Ong) Dress, from CH Carolina Herrera. Watch: Patek Philippe 4910/10.