They’re not your bae, but they’re not nothing either. We review the five types of guys every single 20-something girl will keep around at some point.
They’re not your bae, but they’re not nothing either. We review the five types of guys every single 20-something girl will keep around at some point.
He is “just a friend”
I know the whole world thinks we’re dating… except we’re not. He kinda has a girlfriend, but they’ve been on super rocky terms lately. Maybe we’re afraid to put a label on things because there’s a chance it might ruin everything. I feel like I have to tread really carefully, but I know I’ll definitely look back on these times fondly.
Most likely to say:
“You’re an amazing girl and any guy would be lucky to have you.”
Boyfriend potential:
He is older. Waaaaaay older
He’s not a silver fox (yet), but he’s at least a whole age bracket above. He’s got his own place, knows how to cook a proper meal that doesn’t involve anything instant, and generally got his sh*t together. Unfortunately, his adult-ness has fooled me into thinking he’s ready to settle down. Long story short – he’s not. Not with me anyway. It’s a bitter pill best swallowed with two bottles of wine, but that’s the reality of the situation.
Most likely to say:
“Don’t worry, it’ll pass. When I was your age…”
Boyfriend potential:
He only calls me when he’s drunk
Initially, I was intrigued by him because he likes most of my Instagram posts and lurks on my Instagram Stories. But I soon realised he never actually talks to me till after all the clubs are closed and he finds himself alone at the end of the night. Which is a pity, because I kinda like him, but it sucks to know I’ll never be anything more than a booty call to him.
Most likely to say:
“I know it’s already 3am, but are you out tonight? Wanna come over?”
Boyfriend potential:
He is so damn hot!
The good news is, I’m physically attracted to him. The bad news is, I’m only physically attracted to him. He drinks too much, has a reputation for being a f*ckboi, and never seems to take anything seriously. There’s an off-chance he might turn out to be a reformed bad boy, but the odds are not in my favour. He’s not the kind of guy I see myself with, but now that he’s in my life, I might as well enjoy the ride. *Wink*
Most likely to say:
“Wanna go for a staycation this weekend?”
Boyfriend potential:
He treats me really nicely (I think)
Compared to that last a-hole I dated, this guy is the perfect gentleman and my friends think I should keep him around for a while. He ticks all the boxes, except for one major factor: I just don’t see him as a potential love interest. It’s hard to tell this guy I’m just not that into him, but hey, I don’t want to waste anyone’s time too. Maybe I should just rip off the band-aid?
Most likely to say:
“Come on, you’ve had a tough day. Let’s just head out for a drink.”
Boyfriend potential:
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