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My picky child eats only chicken rice when we dine out. How can I get her to try a healthier dish?

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My picky child eats only chicken rice when we dine out. How can I get her to try a healthier dish? Take her around the food centre to look at how the hawkers prepare the dishes. Let her decide what she wants to try – young children enjoy this powerful feeling of being in control. When introducing a new dish, or something previously rejected by her, don’t use forceful words, such as: “Eat it! It’s good for you!” Instead, encourage her in a gentle and calm tone: “Just taste it and see if you like it.” Let her know that she will not be punished if she doesn’t like it – you just want her to try it. Take it away without fuss if she isn’t keen to eat more. Studies have shown that kids can reject a food item 15 times before they acquire a taste for it. Pauline Xie, National Healthcare Group Polyclinics

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