Grandma says I’m too soft with my kids and they don’t fear me as a parent. Is this wrong? You’re right – the relationship with your children should be built on love and trust, not on fear. Based on such a foundation, the parent-child relationship can stay strong even after your young one becomes an adult. So, even if you choose to punish your kids for their wilful defiance, it should be done out of love – and you must remember to reassure them of that at the end of the day.
THIS MONTH, WE ASK
Grandma says I’m too soft with my kids and they don’t fear me as a parent. Is this wrong? You’re right – the relationship with your children should be built on love and trust, not on fear. Based on such a foundation, the parent-child relationship can stay strong even after your young one becomes an adult. So, even if you choose to punish your kids for their wilful defiance, it should be done out of love – and you must remember to reassure them of that at the end of the day.
Alfred Tan, Singapore Children’s Society.
EDUCATION
Brian Caswell is the dean of Research and Program Development at Mindchamps. He has 15 grandchildren.
Helen Marjan is the joint managing director and director of Studies at Lorna Whiston Schools. Her three children are in their teens.
June Rusdon is the chief executive officer of Busy Bees Asia. She has three kids in their 20s.
Leanne Sunarya is the executive director of Etonhouse International Education Group. Her two children are in their 20s.
PSYCHIATRY
Dr Cornelia Chee is a psychiatrist and director in the Women’s Emotional Health Service at the National University Hospital. Her daughters are aged 11 and 14.
CHILD PSYCHOLOGY
Dr Richard C. Woolfson is a child psychologist based in Britain. He has written 15 books on child and family development, and is Young Parents’ long-standing Age by Stage columnist. He’s also a grandfather of four.
PAEDIATRICS
Dr Chan Poh Chong is the head and senior consultant with the Division of General Ambulatory Paediatrics and Adolescent Medicine at the Khoo Teck Puat- National University Children’s Medical Institute, National University Hospital.
Dr Natalie Epton is a specialist paediatrician and neonatologist at the International Paediatric Clinic. She has three children aged three to 10.
GYNAECOLOGY
Dr Goh Shen Li is a consultant obstetrician and gynaecologist in the S L Goh Women’s Clinic at Mount Alvernia Medical Centre. She has three children aged one to five.
LACTATION & PARENTCRAFT
Kang Phaik Gaik is a senior nurse manager and parentcraft/ lactation consultant at Mount Alvernia Hospital’s Parentcraft Centre. Her two children are in their 20s.
NUTRITION
Pauline Xie is a senior dietitian with the Clinical Services Division at the National Healthcare Group Polyclinics. Her three daughters are aged three to 10.
DENTAL
Dr Rashid Tahir is a paediatric dentist at The Kids Dentist. He’s also the president-elect of the Pediatric Dentistry Association of Asia. His two daughters are in their teens.
FAMILY
Alfred Tan is the chief executive officer of Singapore Children’s Society. His two children are in their 20s.
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