THIS MONTH, WE ASK


How do I raise a happy child?
The most important thing your child needs to be happy is self confidence. Let her know you love her for who she is and not what she does.
Praise your child frequently for both efforts and achievements , so she feels good herself. Be specific about what she has done well , no matter how small it is, because then she knows how to do a good job the next time. Childhood is a time filled with curiosityand adventure. Provide an environment where she can be herself, and explore and experiment. Don't rush her from one activity to another - it gives her little time to discover who she is and what she can do.
What's also crucial: How happy are you? You are your child's top role model. If you can share that sense of amazement and joy with her, she will start to feel special - and happy.
Fiona Walker, Julia Gabriel Education.